Elephant Seals are obviously not the only species with this problem!
This sub-adult male seems a bit sheepish about his not yet mature mating attempts.
He looks at me almost as if he’s apologetic!
He’s just practising now, learning how to deal with all the rejection.
Elephant Seal mating is disturbingly violent. It is a hard life being an elephant seal.
Looking into the female’s eyes it is impossible not to feel sorry for her and her continual harassment.
For now at least, the adolescent males just look beached and confused!
Cheers to you the Piedras Blancas elephant seals~
Title quote: “Cool Hand Luke.”
Awww… I almost feel sorry for him and his awkward attempts. It reminds me of some high school boys who had no idea how to woe a girl properly. Good for her, though, for asserting her right not to be hassled.
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Yes, this is exactly how I felt! These males probably won’t mate this year. But the dominant males will and they will do so violently and without consent. Babies on the beach are sometimes killed in the melee. I have not been here when mating is in full force and I don’t want to be.
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These are adorable photos – very moving and you’ve captured their very essence I feel. Can you really get so close to the seals? That must be an amazing experience! 😀 Wishing you a great weekend, Cindy. 😃
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Thank you for such a lovely comment Annika & I am so pleased you are sensitive to the elephant seal’s essence. One thing I have learned photographing the faces of wild animals is they are emotional and intelligent creatures, who are as curious about me as I am about them! They are like us!
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Strother Martin delivered that line perfectly. 🙂
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It’s classic isn’t it!
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My favorite line from one of my favorite movies…I feel bad for these two – but her expressions say it all – LEAVE ME ALONE
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Those males need sexual harassment training! ❤
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Definitely
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Poor guy, he will learn quickly and in the end, he will succeed.
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He will and the good news is that he is restoring elephant seal populations from near extinction!
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Amazing animals Cindy 🙂
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They are incredible & huge!
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Resembles any bar on any given night. Poor guy is crashing and burning. 😃
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True! He’s facing pretty intense rejection and you can see it in his face.
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Indeed! 😃
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Poor fella…..chuckle
Leslie
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He seems pretty hapless doesn’t he!
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Guess he need a bit more experience with the ladies.
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He clearly does!
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FBL (Full belly laugh)
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Sounds heavy! XD
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In more ways than one! 😉
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Hello Cindy! Great pictures. I feel sorry for the male for trying so hard but to no avail. At the same time, the females don’t want to be bothered, so I feel bad for them too. Ugh! Nature.
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Yes, one could see all sides of the equation here with empathy for all!
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Goodness, oh how I love those elephant seals, they ALWAYS make me smile. They’re like a cartoon come to life! Have yourselves a wonderful weekend Cindy.😃
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Their faces are so expressive! All wild animal faces show curiosity, intelligence and emotionality. So happy you like them & cheers to you my friend~ ❤
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I think as human adults we can all relate to that too, sometimes; lack of communication, misunderstanding, etc. We ask things like, “Can you hear me now?”, “Are you even listening?” etc. I find it very interesting the things we have in common with the mammal species. 🙂
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I definitely find the commonalities interesting too! I was taught about the perils of anthropomorphizing animals, or ascribing them human characteristics. Having photographed so many wild animals, I now realize how misleading this concept is. Animals are complex, intelligent and emotional creatures, with many similarities to us.
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Perhaps every species goes through an awkward stage, huh, Cindy?!
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Yes! It certainly seems so!
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Amazing photos!
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Very pleased you like them & have a wonderful weekend!
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These are terrific, Cindy! Hope you’re doing well. I always enjoy checking out your photography. 🙂
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I always love hearing from you Carrie! Thanks for stopping by & have a great weekend~ ❤
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Fantastic photos. I feel so sorry for the female. But it was still sort of funny.
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Yes, they are both sad, and a humorous and encompass all sorts of emotions don’t they! ❤
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I feel sorry for the females being harassed constantly. Poor things.
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I noticed some females on more distant beaches, not up with the main colony. I wonder if they can remain here unmolested there and if so, these are smart females. I feel sorry for them too and did not hang around to watch the mating when it went into full swing.
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Fantastic!
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Thank you so much!
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They are adorable and interesting – communication is essential to all living creatures. I guess maybe humans are the least equipped creatures in this case…
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Exactly! I was going to focus the post on this fact, but decided to keep it lighter. Humans have a long way to go to catch up with wild animals. After all wild animals kill to survive…..
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I guess some people imagine they do as well…but modern man should be better than that.
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Agreed. We should be better.
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Great pix. And I love your headline.
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I love Paul Newman! 😉
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violent mating would not be for me… in any species..
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Yes. It can be quite disturbing.
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Grossartige Bilder Cindy…
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Ich danke dir sehr! Ich bin froh, dass du sie genossen hast. Habe eine wundervolle Woche Ernst~
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I love how you weave a narrative with your magnificent photos!
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Those elephant eyes wrote the whole story! Hope all is well with you Rebecca & cheers too my friend~ ❤
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the males look so weird hey? the females always look so forlorn and in some cases in bad shape…….it’s a sad thing, but that is nature
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oh.lovely pics too 🙂
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Thank you for your thoughtful comments & taking the time to share them! Cheers to you~
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Awesome pictures, thank you for sharing.
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Thank you more for appreciating them!
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Cindy, you never fail to delight me with these incredible posts. You have a gift! Have a beautiful weekend. xx
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You just made me smile! Thank you for such a lovely comment~ <
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Great series of photos !
Love them very much !!!
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Very pleased you do & cheers too!
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Aw poor baby. She’s crushing his male ego. What a gal! 😉
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She has been through assertiveness training.
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I would say so lol
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God bless him. *shakes head*
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He seems completely clueless about what he should do!
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Poor thing needed a tour guide! I feel especially sorry for both of them. The experience had to be a horrible one.
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The nature is so strange. I do not understand the purpose of violent for the activity that would sustain the species. An interesting post.
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Yes it seems non-sensical. Only dominant males are allowed to mate and they have large harems whom they prohibit from mating with other males. This ensures that strong genes get passed to the greatest number of females. However, it also limits genetic diversity in the gene pool which can be species limiting, so yes, it is confusing. Interestingly, females actually select the harems and the male to join. Although I noticed some females alone on distant beaches. Maybe they are the smartest ones!
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Ah, that is one good reason but with some down side..
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You’re right, lots of down sides actually.
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Isn’t the world full of amazing creatures?? thanks Cindy for bringing the to us over and over… Happy Weekend!! any plans?
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Thank you Rhonda, :”all creatures wise and wonderful!” They are amazing and hope you have a wonderful weekend my friend~ ❤
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You too Cindy– are you traveling again???
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Nope, going nowhere, just here at The Holler, Home Sweet Home. As Dorothy told us there is no place like home, right? Unless of course you never leave it, which would, for me, make it a prison. I love being here. Just not always. You are a sweetheart Rhonda and I am lucky to know you. ❤
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I’m with you Cindy– love being home, “but not always.” Just back from a week in San Francsico, then a week in Madison WI. Now home feels pretty good! Just watched Planet Earth this evening–(have you seen it?) made me think of your photos… take care. xo
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My aunt and uncle went to university in Madison. I bet it was cold there and wet in San Fran, but warmer in Cali! I am watching Planet Earth and amazed as always. We are re-watching the originals again too!
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Hi Cindy– you’re so right– wet & chilly in SF– and we love Madison–state capitol and college town, so pretty and so much going on. — Love your posts–Checking in every week!! xo
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You rock my friend and I am lucky to know you~ ❤
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These are really evocative pictures. I can almost hear the cries of the seals. You do take lovely faces. I remember the grizzlies had expressions as well.
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Wild animals do have expressions and emotions that show clearly on their faces. Thank you for noticing!
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hehe I guess he thought it was worth a shot 😉
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Nothing ventured nothing gained…..
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hehe exactly!!
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LOL – their expressions say it all! You captured them perfectly, as always!
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Hugs and Happy Friday dear one! ❤
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Oh Cindy, they’re soooo cute! Thanks for sharing!
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They are cute aren’t they! So happy you think like I do! ❤
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Wow, he really looks like he’s trying to get friendly with her in the top image, like he’s saying, “Hey… How YOU doin?”
It’s interesting that the power dynamic is so different from one species to another. For example, among the Cassowaries in Australia, the males are scared of the females. There’s a documentary on Youtube showing a male (whose duty is to sit on the eggs and care for the young alone) who reluctantly abandons his young-ish chicks to fend for themselves because an adult female is demanding his special attention and would harm the chicks. Poor things. They seemed happy together (the male and the chicks).
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These different patterns of behavior are confusing aren’t they and frankly, despite all the Darwinian explanations, lots of it doesn’t make much sense. Elephant Seals would be better off with more males mating and less dominance in the gene pool with only one male and 100 or so partners. Everyone would be happier too. I have to restrain myself thinking like a psychotherapist who treated abusive males for a few decades when I visit these guys. I have to use self talk, “They are elephant seals Cindy. They can’t go to group!”
😉 😉
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Failure to communicate aside, this is what I call Sealrious and Sealous photography. Great shots, my friend. ♡(˘ᵋ ˘ )∿ ︵ ღсμтёღ
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Well, I mean, they are, sealious. ♡(˘ᵋ ˘ )∿ ︵ ღсμтёღ
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George Kennedy, ‘Cool Hand Luke,’ will get my attention every time. 🙂
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It is a powerful moment in a powerful film. And of course Paul Newman’s in it! Strother Martin, AKA ‘Captain’, the prison warden was brilliantly done too.
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A fine film all round. The opening scene where he’s drunkenly beheading the meters….
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Somehow the film seems more relevant now, then ever. Especially in the US.
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I assume you’re referring to the ‘lock them up and throw away the key’ mentality of the privatised prison service providers looking to make a fast buck out of people’s misery.
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Yes, that, and the current resurgence of bigotry and cruelty in my country.
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Dispiriting isn’t it?
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Very.
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Oh dear! The joys of trying to find one’s mating maturity! Or not in this case lol🙄😊
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Painful for all of us, not just elephant seals, to even think about I know! 😉
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Awww beautiful seals! I love that pic of the females eyes that you captured! She looks like she’s saying, leave me alone and let me enjoy the sunshine! Hugz from Lisa and Bear
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Exactly, and I fully agree with her! ❤
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As everyone has already said, brilliant photos of this wonderful creature, Cindy. RH
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Ahhh, so kind & so appreciated! Cheers to you in gorgeous Abaco~
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Shakin’ the bush Boss!
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Such a damn good movie!
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👍 A classic.
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Wonderful photos. They really are most characterful creatures. I remember in a nature show on television all about elephant seals, that the mating season did involve some pretty violent encounters between competing males, and they made some impressive noises when they were cross.
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The males also rape females and squish babies in the violent melee, and you are right, the males do fight regularly but most intensely for control of the beach before the females arrive. The females pick the harem and male they want to join. I saw solitary females on empty beaches. These must have been the smart, feminist seals! 😉
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Love those lusty elephant seals. Through your wonderful photos, I can hear those open-mouthed complaints 🙂 Oh, my goodness, the sounds they make!
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It is incredible. You can hear the garrumping drum beat of the males from miles away. They are magnificent creatures!
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Reblogged this on Random Ramblings; Myriad Musings and commented:
Ah, yes…love is in the air!
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Love, and mayhen! Thank you for supporting these awesome creatures my friend & cheers to you~ ❤
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Terrific! Looks as if they are singing 🙂
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Yes, a distressed duet!
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Oh it’s such a tough life for them, isn’t it?! Adorable photos xxoo
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It is an odd life, they spend the bulk of their lives alone in the deep ocean, and meet up, and mash up for a couple of months to breed, fight, and raise their young. I would want to find some empty atoll and live there instead! 😉
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He should have been more suave and asked for the win list 😀
Good pics. 🙂
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He has clearly not yet mastered suave & sophisticated! George Clooney should provide free lessons. 😉
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Quite so. He wouldn’t get a seal of approval. 😀
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Which is probably why he can’t seal the deal……….
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aaarg. 🙂
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My bad~
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I’d most likely get thrown out of the park, because I’d be beating pots and pans to stop the harassment 🙂 Lovely photos as always, Cindy 💛
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Yes, I can relate! ❤
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