Many of us are experiencing emotional distress from the pandemic which can affect each of us in different ways, but often presents as increasing anxiety, worry, sleep disruption, feelings of helplessness, panic, and/or depression.
The shrieking headlines don’t help do they? So what can we do to manage these feelings and feel stronger emotionally and psychologically as we prepare ourselves to face the difficult days ahead?
As a psychotherapist who has practiced for many decades, I have some ideas that can help. So if you are interested, read on.
We are going to make a customized anxiety toolbox. One approach doesn’t work for everyone, pick and choose what feels right for you. Of course I’m including relaxing photos intermixed in this post because looking at positive images is an objective and powerful anxiety reducer. What you perceive influences how you think and feel.
ANXIETY TOOLBOX:
Self Talk Reframing (Cognitive Therapy)
Guided Imagination/Visualization
Exposure Management
Progressive Relaxation
Distraction in Action
Self Soothing
Spiritual Meditation/Prayer
Second Voice
Exercise, Diet & Good Health Practices
This topic will be broken up into separate posts, and start with Self Talk, Guided Imagination and Exposure Limitation. These are the tools I use most frequently to manage my anxiety. Yes, I have anxiety, and now pandemic anxiety, and I don’t like any of it, so I have learned over the years to better manage all of it.
Self Talk is one of your most powerful anxiety busting tools. It can be best understood through the ABC Model:
A: is an objective event that occurs (Covid 19 for example).
B: is what you immediately and silently say to yourself, sometimes many times a day, about this event, usually without conscious awareness (“Oh no, we’re in a high risk group, we’re gonna die, badly,” is my example). Insert your personal pandemic negative self talk here.
C: are the feelings that immediately arise in response to our self talk (Anxiety, pandemic preoccupation, worry and/or panic)
In this case my self talk was awfulizing , which is the tendency to assume the worst possible outcomes will happen to me or the people I love. I can challenge and change this self talk by making it more realistic. An example for me might be, “Stop thinking the worst. Most high risk people survive. You can take steps to improve your chances.”
I use self talk reframing in combination with guided imagination everyday. These are two of my most trusty tools and they work synergistically with each other to reduce anxiety, each making the other more effective. Like any learned skill, the more you practice it, the better you get at it.
Guided imagination is exactly what it says it is. When you are resting, napping, or going to sleep, don’t let your imagination run you. You run your imagination. Guide it to a place, a story, a visualization, that engages your mind, and is positive, happy and fun. Challenge yourself to come up with imaginative stories that involve you. This is wonderful for your mental and physical health. Make yourself a central character in your story. I have ongoing stories that I return to everynight before I fall asleep. I come up with new stories when the old ones start to lose interest.
This kind of guided imagination reduces stress hormone levels, aids sleep and reduces anxiety. It can even positively influence, or guide, our dreams which is beneficial to our mental and physical health. It is harnessing the creative power of your brain to control its own production. Long term prison inmates report using this technique to escape their cells and fly free. If they can do this, so can you and I.
And finally, reduce your exposure to news. Yes, it is important to stay well informed and safe, especially in a pandemic. But constant media onslaught can be psychologically overwhelming and add to an unhealthy level of anxiety. So take charge of the news in your own best interest. Consciously limit your exposure according to your best choice about how much you can absorb without becoming overwhelmed. This is truly important in managing your anxiety during pandemic times, and really at all times.
Switch from the news after you’ve had enough to stay informed, and read blogs or a book. Watch a movie. Look for positive imagery. Write blogs and stories. After all, you are bloggers! You have awesome creative imaginations. Use your imaginations in positive ways to help you, and your readers, stay on even keel during the coming stressful days.
Cheers & calm to you from me at The Holler~
Note: Australian birds in order, New Holland Honey Eater, Gouldian Finch, Superb Fairy Wren.
Wow..Gorgeous images🌹
Much appreciated! Thank you & cheers <3
Welcome 🌹
Love the pictures!
Grazie mille <3
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Excellent advice and thank you for sharing all these beautiful images … definitely relaxing!
Thank you Ingrid. You make me happy I posted. Be well <3
Dear Cindy,
Thank you so much for this post. I know we all think differently, but one thing is true, we are concerned. All the best to you.
Ranu
Yes. You got to the heart of the matter my friend and I thank you. We do think differently but this should not stop us from caring about each other. Love to you.
Aaaack ! ! I can relate ! ! I wish I had read this 2 weeks ago.
I wish I posted it two weeks ago. It is nice to be understood. Take good of yourself my friend <3
Fabulous photos! I particularly like the one of the koala.
They are magical creatures because when you look at them you feel happy ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Absolutely
Take good care Sheree ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
You too Cindy
Great post, Cindy. I love your term of “guided imagination”, and I’m going to take it to heart. Thank you so much for posting this. 🙂
You make me happy I posted it Belinda. Thank you <3
Thank you Cindy for this informative post, looking to next one!
Take good care my friend <3
The photographs are breathtaking. The advice…fantastic. You are amazing. Much love to you always.
Visa versa 2UX2 ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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Hugs and thank you Gigi <3
Great suggestions. Managing personal anxiety is key.
It is hard to do, but it can be done <3
I couldn’t agree more. And I love your gorgeous photos, they make me feel very happy 🙂
Your sweet comment makes me feel happy. Thank you Miranda <3
You’re welcome, thank you for your post 🙂 <3
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For me, looking at Mother nature’s creations in your photos and in the world around me is the best therapy. Have a great weekend, Cindy!
It is the best therapy by far. Nature is calming because when we are in it we know we are part of it. Thank you Peter <3
Great post. Thank you.
Thank you more for your kind appreciation Jim & be well <3
This is wonderful! Thank you for sharing these tips. And the photos are stunning.
Love to you & thank you too <3
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Excellent advice, Cindy. Thank you for this and for the beautiful images.
Thank you more for your thoughtful appreciation Mary <3
The photographs, as always, are fabulous, Cindy. But more importantly… this is such good, common-sense advice. I check the news once a day to stay informed… and then I don’t look again. I am in a high risk group and so are many of those I love. Worrying about ‘what if’ isn’t going to keep any of us safe, but practical measures to stay healthy, including getting enough sleep and minimising stress, will actually help.
Exactly. Thank you for sharing such a common sense and effective strategy Sue. It is encouraging to see people coping well under adversity. <3
Thank you Cindy for sharing your thoughts, advice and concerns. I hope and pray this pandemic Coronavirus will be something than can better unite us in spirit, in faith and in prayer than something more that divides us. God richly bless you and yours. Be blessed, be safe and be well.
Amen Joyce. It seems like quite a wake up call doesn’t it. Love one another works! Love to you Joyce and thank you <3
Very good hints. Enjoyed the images as well.
Thanks for letting me know & take care <3
Thanks, Cindy.
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Gorgeous photos (I kinda skipped the text because I don’t have any anxiety over the current health scare. I’m finding people’s stupidity amusing.)
Thanks and lucky you!
Such exquisite photos Cindy. And very calming and heart-opening.
Alison <3
Love to you and be well Alison <3
Just an additional update on my life to share: I have had some recent declining health issues with the ongoing loss of eye sight due to advancing AMD and being treated for that as my doctors try to preserve eyesight in my right eye as the left has lost much of its vision. Also I have Rheumatoid Arthritis developing in my hands which has been painful and hard to type, etc., so have not been able to do a lot of posting and writing with my blog lately . I will continue to follow yours and enjoy all your wonderful pictures and travels as much as possible. Take care.
Oh, so difficult. I am so sorry Joyce. I wondered where you were. Thank you for letting me know what you are going through. Love, prayers and positive hopes are flying to you my friend. Take good care <3
Thank you Cindy. It is friends like you that is the very best part of being a part of a blogging community. Love you and take care also.
I agree completely. I love our community <3
Wonderful, timely post, Cindy. Thank you!
Thank you Emma for your very kind appreciation <3
Beautiful post sweetie! I don’t watch the news which helps me! What is sad is the overall panic of people buying out everything in the store.
Panic harms the person who has it. It reinforces a low opinion of oneself. Compassion and calm does the opposite as you well know <3
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Strange time, hmm? Loved this advice from Cindy.
Thank you Emma for spreading positivity. We need it don’t we! Cheers & be well <3
Perfect timing. I needed this post this morning. Thank you for generously sharing your wisdom!
Thank you more for your kind appreciation <3
Thank you, Cindy. So nice to hear some hopeful and reasonable words amongst all the doomsday stuff. I’ll do my part by posting pictures of my new foster kittens…kittens are always good for a little feel-good dose!
Oh I want to see them!!! Just the word kittens makes me smile <3
Wish granted!
Yes indeed. And I still smiling because you shelter them <3
Great advice. Beautiful photos. I’m one who doesn’t worry. I say take precautions, go on with life, and, like you, encourage people to remain calm, take precautions and go on with life. It’s sad the media has to sensationalize everything, and people in power have to politicize serious issues when everyone should work together to minimize risks. If the polarizing media and politicos would work with their perceived enemies, and encourage everyone to work together, people on all sides of the issues might discover that their enemies, and all the other people they find so undesirable are actually human beings, also. It’s really a sad state of affairs.
YES!!!
“If the polarizing media and politicos would work with their perceived enemies, and encourage everyone to work together, people on all sides of the issues might discover that their enemies, and all the other people they find so undesirable are actually human beings…” We can see as this crisis unfolds how polarization harms each one of us. People working together, supporting each other, and respecting difference, is the only way to make something positive happen out of this crisis. Thank you so much for this Timothy. It is so important and so necessary. <3
Excellent ideas and written in such a beautiful and calming manner. Thank you.
Thank you for such a lovely response <3
Thank you Cindy – so kind of you. 🙂 I am away from my country right now and although the country I am visiting has contained a very small outbreak, it’s the return home that’s bothering me – airports and aircraft (even though the airlines are really upping the cleaning protocols – including my own – people are people).
Yes. I can well understand how you feel. I had to fly during the epidemic too. It is an unnerving feeling. Take prudent precautions and hope for the best <3
Excellent ideas and beautiful pictures.
Early on I saw what I consider the best abbreviated advice: “Keep calm and wash your hands.”
Perfect! I love it <3
Wow! You’ve got a couple of photos of 2 of my favourite Australian birds – the New Holland Honeyeater and the male Superb Fairy-wren. Thanks for sharing.
I rarely watch the news and never realised how quickly the coronavirus had spread.
Surprisingly, I don’t feel in the least bit anxious, Cindy. I just assume life will go on as normal for me. If I catch it, I catch it (the virus). So I’ll think about that eventuality if and when it arrives. In the meantime, I’m staying home as usual and following the Health Department’s instructions.
I’d hate to be in the shoes of people in danger of losing their jobs or failing to meet their financial commitments.
I admire the way you stay grounded yourself, while at the same time having compassion for others whose experience may be more difficult <3
Thanks Cindy. I wasn’t always like this. It’s just that I’ve lost so much ‘normal’ life that most people take for granted, I’ve learned to make do, simplify, be more appreciative of what I have, rather than wishing for more.
In other words, you have gained so much in wisdom. Love to you Vicki.
I am an unrepentant optimist so I KNOW we will survive this.
Good on you and thanks for spreading your optimism around. We can use it <3
Beautiful, uplifting photos and sounds advice, Cindy. There are confirmed cases of Corona virus in the next town over from where I live. Life can’t stop, we just take precautions.
Yes, keep calm and carry on <3
Beautiful! All of it, Cindy. I just posted something similar, but different. We are going to get through this! 😊
We are going to and hopefully it will bring us together. <3
I have a feeling it will bring us closer. I hope.💜
What you write about visualization—I completely agree—Good medicine.
Yes, I have the same hope. I mean would you rather fight over toilet paper and presidential candidates, or take care of each other? One thing makes you feel worthwhile, and the other, terrified. Visualization is a secret strength in the toolbox of life. Love to you <3
Exactly! Well said, Cindy. And if it takes a pandemic to make us see this—well then God bless us! I first learned visualization in elementary school—theatre. Life-saving. Long distant love with wings to you too, Cindy! 💓 Nina
I love that, “Long distant love with wings!” If we learn to be kind to each from this pandemic, and to stop demonizing each other, then at least some good might come from it <3
Hi Cindy, thank you for your informative post, complemented with beautiful pictures, to help keep calm in this difficult time. I also find keeping a journal, and really just pouring all my thoughts there, very relaxing. I guess that falls under self-talk. I especially found the point about guided visualization very interesting, shall be sure to practice that. Regards.
Yes, journaling is a powerful tool, it helps to bring your thoughts and feelings into conscious awareness, where you can deal with them, rather than have them deal with you <3
Yes, very articulately put. I shall remember that.
I am glad. Take good care & be well <3
Thanks for sharing your insight and personal experience! 😊
You are most welcome and I hope it is useful <3
Thank you for the helpful advice and lovely photos! I’m trying to use common sense and carry on, but it would be great to find a store with some TP! 🙂
Laughing……Oh my God! I forgot humour. I am going to add this. Humour is one of the very best stress busters. Thank you for making me laugh.
Glad I could help 🙂
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Thanks for this advice, Cindy. I do tend to imagine the worst. Will try some optimistic scenarios instead. Love the photos, especially the lotuses and the fairy wren!
Thank you Audrey. Those Australian Fairy Wrens are just pure magic.
Thank you.
You are most welcome Robert <3
Good advice and, yes, soothing photos. One of the things I tell myself when I’m faced with stress is that as long as I’m as prepared as I can be and I have a backup plan, I try not to worry about things that might happen, especially when they are out of my control.
Yes. I do this too. My motto is “try my best, forget the rest!”
Beautiful pics
Thank you Haroon <3
You are welcome
Good thoughts and wonderful photos. Thanks.
Take good care & thank you <3
Thank you, Cindy <3
You are most welcome Rosaliene & take good care <3
Thank you for this.
You are most welcome & take good care <3
Such beautiful birds! I agree with your psychology! In addition, I’m thankful that I have my faith and a knowledge of the gospel. It’s a strength and a comfort to know that God is in charge during times of trial — such as with this virus. God bless and stay safe!
Spiritual connection and faith are powerful strengths that enable us to look beyond ourselves. Faith can endure, even when very bad things happen to us. I know you have this strength Linda and I am happy you do. Love to you <3
Good soothing, balanced advice. I also like the controlled breathing practice- I do 4 seconds deep inhalation; count to seven, holding breath and exhale slowly to ten. The numbers can vary, but the lengths must be extended, according to your lung capacity. A few of these and I fall asleep again, if disturbed by anxious thoughts
Yes, this a version of progressive muscle relaxation. Similar to yoga. It works more and more efficiently the more you do it. I am glad you practice it. Be well my friend <3
Thanks for the info.
These are strange days. To say the least.
Yes. These times are like a bad movie. Be well my friend <3
Love the photos! Good advice, too, although I’m not anxious.
I’m slightly put out by two weeks of working from home, but I’ve blocked out a schedule to keep normal working hours. I’m not using social media except on weekends, as per usual. Too much noise and rumor-mongering doesn’t help.
“Too much noise and rumor-mongering doesn’t help.”
It certainly doesn’t help, and I don’t like it. After all if you make too much noise, you can’t see wild birds 😉 <3 Love you my friend.
My very own, being from the Rhineland and having lived in the Bonn/Cologne area for over 60 years, anxiety management is adhering to two paragraphs of the “Cologne Basic Law”. In the local dialect they would be
– et kütt wie et kütt
– et ess noch ömmer jood jejange
Translated:
– Things come as they come.
– Things have always turned out well.
Best,
Pit
First off, Cologne is so beautiful, and has such history of enduring catastrophe, and rebounding. “Things come as they come.” This is so relieving. It is up to us to deal with things positively. Thank you for this <3
You’re welcome, Cindy. It’s a serious situation but nothing to despair.
Precisely <3
Self talk works and God is listening anyway.
Yes, our improved self talk is a gift from God. We have to work at it to know it <3
Wonderful advice and toolbox, Cindy. Positive self-talk is a powerful tool at any time when one’s mind wants to wander into negative territory. Beautiful images to redirect the mind. My daughter calls it eye floss–looking at pretty pictures or cute pet videos when one is stuck in the muck of negative ramblings of the mind.
“Eye Floss-Looking!” How amazingly creative and wise is this! She reminds me of her mother <3
Soothing photos!
That koala is a personal calm down ambassador (◍•ڡ•◍)❤
THANK YOU, CINDY!!! <3 <3
Love to you sweet friend & be well <3
Same to you!
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And, remember Jeep’s advice; always keep your paws clean!
Laughing….
Thank you for the anxiety-reducing strategies and, of course, the beautiful photographs.The bird with the block-coloring is incredible. I’ve been using one of your strategies for the past several months without knowing it is an anxiety-reducing strategy: When I go to bed, I put myself in a story or poem I’m working, and pretty soon I fall asleep.
Yes, our personal made up stories have such subtle but enduring power, and the more we do it, the more power they have. If you tell good enough stories to yourself when you go to bed, to manage anxiety, you sometimes put off falling asleep, to continue the story. This means you have tackled the beast. Love to you Liz <3
Thank you, Cindy. Love to you, too.
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Excellent and helpful post, Cindy!
Ah, thank you my friend. Love to you and Marion. Always thinking of you both~
A wonderful reflection, Cindy. So beautiful given with joy and compassion. “When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.” Marcus Aurelius. Hugs!!
Love to you Rebecca. You are are a joy in my life <3
I have terrible anxiety, had downright panic attacks. I learned deep breathing and started mediation, which help me a lot.
Just like you, in the night, before I fall asleep I make up a story or continue my favorite made up story. Lately, I have been listening to CALM an app designed to help you fall asleep without panic thoughts. I got it as a present but will continue to keep it around, even though it costs money.
“Don’t let your imagination run you. You run your imagination.” I love this so much!
I love you my friend and have for a long time. You always brighten my day. I love that you have stories that take the punch out of panic. It’s a sneaky thing, isn’t it, to outwit your own often unhelpful brain. I am so glad you do it. Be well my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
I love you right back. You are one on my all-time favorite bloggers and I hope you know that.
You touched my <3
Thank you Cindy, this is wonderful 🙂 And it’s great to see such beautiful photos reminding us there is much to wonder at in this world despite all the ugliness of pandemics, death and fear. It’s easy for fear to drive everything out of balance so we can’t see or think about anything else but we’re all doomed! With that in mind I’ve collected some little seeds of life which I’m hoping to sow this weekend with a view to seeing little green seedlings sprout into life in the next few weeks, spring coming and new life growing and hopefully blossoming is a cheery and soothing way to calm the storm of panicked thoughts that seek to overwhelm our troubled minds at times!
I am SO LUCKY! I blog so I get to know people like you <3 My 36 sweet pea seedlings are staked and I check them every morning, waiting for the fragrant bouquets they will yield in a month or so. My newly planted nasturtiums are growing exuberantly, like they always do. Plants do speak to us. It is just a different language. Love to you my friend and thank you <3
You are wonderful, Cindy! Thank you for this terrific, calming post that I will share with friends. <3
What I am is super lucky because I belong to this community of talented, creative, and kind people like you. I am very grateful for people like you Teresa ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Good stuff Cindy! Love the photos 🙂.
Thank you my friend. Drive your RV somewhere safe my friend and keep posting those amazing photos of your bird friends <3
Glad to know some of things that I have done through life are good tools to have. I do engage in self-talk time from time. It’s very good at clearing clutter from my mind when I need to concentrate on other things (like work). Also, the guided imagination … I call it “stepping onto the helicopter”. Remarkably, that too clears my mind when a gazillion things are going through my mind at bedtime, or I’m trying to fall back asleep after waking in the middle of the night (potty break). Limiting one’s exposure to the news is quite helpful. While I find it useful to be well informed, one does need to step back to the steady stream of news.
I was planning to write a post on the “science behind the scenes” on testing, in particular why testing is lagging behind and where sci-tech is coming into play. I can tell you why testing is lagging behind – Trump shuttered the pandemic/infectious disease unit at CDC. Those who worked in the unit are in private industry or have taken retirement.
I love that you “step into the helicopter.” I can only imagine where you fly, but I am sure it must me amazing, and I am very glad you have learned how to fly away. You don’t want testing to work if you are not prepared to grapple with the results. Love to you David.
Thanks for the great tips, Cindy. We really need to stay on top of our self management, now more than ever. Love your Aussie photos… I adore those male Superb Fairy Wrens – they are one of Nature’s feathered jewels. <3
Oh my God, those fairy wrens flitter around, mostly on the ground, as soon as you’re on to them, they lead you on a merry chase. They are tiny masters and best me basically all the time <3
I’ve heard that from Aussie birders. You must have a quick trigger figure to capture this one!
I think they love leading humans around! ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Thanks. This sounds like very useful advice. And also, thanks for the lovely photos. 🙂
Thank you for what you do everyday. Your compassion is inspiring to me <3
Thank you so much, Cindy for these guidance and beautiful photos. I read a couple of times, it’s very helpful. I practice yoga and take a 4-mile walk in the morning. I agree, the news can paint a much worse picture than it really is. Looking forward to reading more of your advice.
Awww talented and kind Amy. Be well my friend and love to you ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Great tips, Cindy. I’m planning to watch some Rodgers & Hammerstein musicals and catch up on reading while we’re self-isolating here at the farm. Thanks…. sharing your post! We all need it.
We do. We need something more than what we are getting from the news. Musicals, catching up on reading, hanging out at the farm. Sounds like a perfect plan Bette. Good for you <3
The most common reaction I find myself having is frustration bordering on anger at people who are creating such chaos and panic (news media bombarding everyone with conflicting information from sources that should not be used as sources). We can do what we have to do without people taking advantage of the situation (hoarding necessary items, preventing those in need from accessing items, selling needed items at outrageous costs to people who cannot afford it).
……and breathe.
I love reality therapy ! 🙂
I know. If we pull together we can do basically anything, so it is frustrating, when we don’t, but it is also an example of what unchecked fear does, it creates panic which is harmful to the person who panic’s survival, and anyone who tries to help them. I know this because I used to be an ocean swimmer. If you panic when in trouble in the ocean, you drown, and pull the person who tries to help you down too.
Cindy that is a great example of what fear does to us.
I still believe that the ‘news’ agencies who are reporting misleading information and/or opinion pieces as news at this time should be held accountable. If ‘we’ as individuals incited panic we would have consequences. We need to have a reliable source of information that addresses what to do, what not to do, and does so without inciting such fear. I believe we can be cautious and preventative without the panic.
“I still believe that the ‘news’ agencies who are reporting misleading information and/or opinion pieces as news at this time should be held accountable.”
I so agree with you. I am so tired of each side demonizing the other. Why are we allowing this to continue? I remember when news what objective. Since when is ‘news’ and journalism so opinionated and so angry? I really feel it has done a huge disservice to people and to our well being. We are all worse off because of it. Remember, “Love they neighbor?” Why don’t we try this instead.
Love to you my friend and please keep on chattering. You are a master <3
So much agreement to what you say. <3 to you and your view of the world.
Yes. We think alike <3
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Love to you Sharon and take good care <3
I took the chains and plow off from the tractor to move a couple of cords of wood for next winter. Guess that is future orientation. Lots of fresh air too (not much air in the room these days). – Oscar
You rock Oscar. Keep on rocking my friend <3
Oh, yes, I have rock moving projects too 🤪 I have an embankment which I am covering with rocks. Every time we walk the dogs, I find one rock in a ditch. I pick it up and carry it back to put into place. Better than carrying kettle bells around the gym…🏋🏽♂️ and I anticipate that I shall finish that project when I am about age 90.
I like you Oscar. You make me smile. A rock a day whiles the time away (｡♥‿♥｡)
How much do I love this post? Thanks, Cindy! Looking forward to more. 🙂
Awww, I love my blogging friends. Thank you and be well <3
Thank you Cindy! What a lovely post and so applicable to our times.
Thank you more and be well my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
“I have ongoing stories that I return to every night before I fall asleep. I come up with new stories when the old ones start to lose interest.” I have done this all my life – it is a great way to ‘destress’. Thank you for the very useful advice you have provided here.
I am grateful you understand what I mean. It is a way to create an alternate powerful personal reality.
Great post, Cindy. We need to stay centered and de-stress. Getting wound up and twisted won’t help our immune systems. <3
Very true and thank you my friend. We need to find joy in all the little moments. Cheers to you & stay safe my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Hugs to you, love. <3
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Wonderful post – Thank you! I’ve always felt relaxed when browsing through your beautiful photos! The power and benefits behind them are innumerable. <3
Awww, your thoughtfulness touches my heart. Thank you & be well.
Thank you!
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Adorable photos, dear Cindy, and very welcome suggestions.
You are most welcome and it is wonderful to hear from you! I love how your prime minister is standing up to covid19. She is keeping you safe (｡♥‿♥｡)
She is the BEST.
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vielen Dank, liebe Cindy, ich wünsche trotz allem einen schönen Sonntag, Klaus
Bitte schön Klaus. Pass gut auf dich auf, mein Freund (｡♥‿♥｡)
ich versuche cool zu bleiben
Gut! Ich bin froh. Bleib sicher und ruhig und mein Freund.
so machen wir es
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My self talk is more about reminding myself to take threats seriously – my inclination is to think that it won’t happen to me.
Yes. The most important key is what you just demonstrated you are already doing. You recognize the type of faulty self talk you are prone to, and correct it. This is basically cognitive therapy in a nutshell and in your case, it will help keep you safe. Be well and stay safe my friend. Enjoy your beautiful garden (｡♥‿♥｡)
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Great advice Cindy. I think the blogging community is so important these days, with face to face opportunities to talk rapidly disappearing. And the reminder that (for the moment, in most countries) we can still get out and about, enjoy the fresh air and be inspired by nature.
Our international blogging community shrinks the world, makes people from distant places, neighbors. I so value being part of this community and being friends with people like you. Take good care. Enjoy nature & be well.
Great post and just looking at your pictures feels great. We need to to positive things to keep us going!
We do. And you add positivity to our world my friend <3
Beautifully said, Cindy, from one who has earned the right to say it! I’m a BIG proponent of turning off the news (after we’ve become informed, of course). So much of that yammering gets on my last nerve, and everybody is frightened enough as it is. At times like this, it’s great being a writer and living in my own head, ha!
” At times like this, it’s great being a writer and living in my own head, ha!”
It is a major gift and strength. “If you can keep your head while about you are losing theirs,” then you are a writer my friend! (｡♥‿♥｡)
Thank you.
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Thank you for the wonderful photos and toolbox Cindy. It’s easy to switch gears with such beautiful images, and a nice bonus to live at the Holler and be able to go walk in such a beautiful place. I bet you’re a wonderful psychotherapist. Hugs and good health…🌺
Such kind and thoughtful comments Brad. You add joy to my life. Take good care of yourself my friend & thank you ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
You’re most welcome Cindy. The feeling is mutual.
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Thank you so much my friend. I hope it is helpful to people. Take good care & be well <3
Thank you for taking time to write these and show us lovely animals. Knowing there is something to do, a remedy, can empower people to take some control of what they can and feel better. I’m taking pleasure in hunkering down.
Stay safe and well.
“I’m taking pleasure in hunkering down.”
I am so glad you are. There is opportunity in crisis, and we find out what it is when it unfolds, at the very least, we find out we have more inner resources then we knew before. I am glad you are finding pleasure it the midst of the noise and chaos.
It is the mind that creates images… positive self-talk is most helpful.
Thanks for beautiful pictures and advice Cindy. Stay blessed.
“It is the mind that creates images… positive self-talk is most helpful.”
Thank you. This is so true and perfectly said. I am glad you know this. Blessings back to you <3
Great advice, Cindy!
Thank you. I hope it is useful. Take care of yourself my friend.
So very generous of you to share this helpful wisdom, thank you! 💕
Considering the daily joy bloggers add to my life, it is the least I could do. You folks are my community <3
Very good post to remind us to stay calm. Good mental health is one factor that help keep your immune system strong. Lovely pictures and very lively!
Yes! Good mental health = good physical health. They are directly related. Happy you know this & stay safe my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
You had to hear our Spanish Minister of Health….” everything is fine”. O.K…. once I hear that I know that the shait is going to hit the fan and is raining now outside…. that is why people are not out of this glorious town I live in.
I prefer to watch your photography, and still puzzled how you do it. Don´t let the secret go public as how you do it.
“everything is fine”. O.K…. once I hear that I know that the shait is going to hit the fan and is raining now outside.”
Laughing…..Oh Charly you crack me up. I think exactly like you! I remember when the president at a place I worked calling all faculty “our family.” I knew I was in deep doodoo when he kept saying this, and I was right.
Take good care Charly.
I know I crack you up,
about taking care…. I live in a lieral whore house, though they are good at hiding their movements, hence I put my great poetry, and I know this is shait compared what yobu have lived ( But you were not in army and deployed! …boy) kidding about that one, shouldn´t but…. Just like your blog.
I like you too Charly. Stay safe my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Thank you Cindy for your comforting presence, sharing wisdom and beautiful photos. Its what we all need. Be well. Val x
Love to you Val. This is what you do too, and I thank you for it my friend <3
Wonderful advice! I love how you acknowledge our anxiety and fear without dismissing it, but also give us tools to deal with it. My personal fear is less about getting the virus than about the devastating effect it will have on our society, and of being in a “locked down” world. So addressing that fear is my struggle, and I very much appreciate you outlining these steps to deal with it!
I love how you are brave enough to articulate your very logical fears. It takes courage to admit you have fears, and when you do, you take you take power away from the fear. It becomes smaller. Plus sharing your fear and learning that other people share and understand just how you feel takes the solo burden off your heart and mind. So you just did some very good things to take the wind out of your fear’s sails. Be sure to give yourself lots of extra TLC, distracting and enjoyable activities, rest, read, blog. These things all will help. You are not alone in being afraid. This is a scary situation ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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Be well my friend & take good care ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Finally, a blog/article that is useful, Cindy! I agree that viewing soothing images is relaxing and helps take our minds off the current events for a while. I am glad you can share your expertise on such a crazy subject. I tend to be a negative self-talker so I try not to read too much about these events. They’ve closed our university campus and we can only teach online, and I really will miss my face-to-face class students, and simply walking around our beautiful campus. Today, we went to our church (no handshake greetings or passing the collection plates) and our Pastor shared relevant passages about coping. Without making light of the situation, he said when Disneyland re-opens, all will be right with the world again. Shared on my Facebook feed!
Us negative self talkers really can turn things around when we tap down that voice. I like your pastors humor! He just made me laugh. Good on him! Yes my son in law’s campus is now online and my daughter is doing psychotherapy online. It is a true blessing.
Thank you so much. Although not always successful…I’ve tried similar ‘tactics’ and they do sometimes work! (Probably don’t always apply myself to the task properly!) When it works,its’ such a relief.x
Yes, one of the tricks is practice, and the other is making what you do fun and life enhancing so it doesn’t feel like work. Your self talk can be humorous and your stories incredibly entertaining. Best of luck & take good care ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Thank you, Cindy – this is wonderful! I look forward to your future posts in this series.
You are most welcome and I will get the next one out soon ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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Here are some useful suggestions and beautiful photos for managing stress in these pandemic days from a psychotherapist and awesome photographer!
I love our community ♡´･ᴗ･`♡ Thank you my friend and take good care.
Cindy, thank you for this wonderful post!
You are very welcome Charles. I am so glad to be able to contribute something in support of our amazing community. ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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Here is a wonderful and needed post from Cindy Knoke!
Thank you for all you do each day for our community Charles & be well my friend.
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With the constant bombardment by the news media about Covid-19, Cindy Knoke gives us some helpful advice for handling any stress or anxiety we may be feeling.
So thoughtful of you. Our mental health is important and the media onslaught harms us. Stepping back and nurturing ourselves is important. Thank you for spreading the word and take good care <3
So much in the media harms us – too much of everything from political rivals sparring, the stock market, Covid-19. I hope to spread your healing post to all who need it, and there will be many. Keep well.
Yes, there actually far more important things to be doing in life than fighting over presidents and toilet paper. Thank you for spreading care and compassion my friend and be well <3
Take care Cindy. Remember, someday we will all be looking back on this time and saying, “Remember when….”
This too shall pass….. <3
Good advice Cindy. Thank you. I think I read a blog. 🙂 And go backpacking. –Curt
Excellent plan Curt. The hills are alive without the sound of panic! (◍•ڡ•◍)❤
That they are Cindy— although our local wildlife is a little worried about the bobcat that is hanging around. 🙂
Oh set up your wildlife cam. I want to see him! Which reminds me I need to go check my wildlife cam….
I watched him try to catch a stellar jay and boy was he fast. The jay was faster, however. 🙂
How thrilling!
Indeed.
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This, THIS is a perfect example of why you’re one of my favorite bloggers Cindy! Thank you for this breath of calmness and serenity, and of course the beautiful photos!🤗😙❤️
Awwww, I love my blogging friends. We are an awesome community and I am grateful to be part of it. You ROCK my friend. You touched my <3 Thank you & be well.
Excellent advice Cindy for a world in turmoil. Definitely need these calming actions. Are you back home now?
Yes we are home. I wanted to come home because my family are all here. But it it weren’t for that, Australia seems to have a far better medical system and proactive medical response them we do at home. They are already trying effective medication combos on patients that seem to eliminate the virus in ill people. They did genetic sequencing of the virus while I was there and they did it in a short amount of time, and they issue really calming, honest statements about what they were doing to keep people safe. Plus they did all this right after the fires. I was really impressed. Stay self and well Pauline <3
Yes I think we need to be near family in these uncertain times. So far Australia seems to be coping well, being so far away from many other countries and an island is in our favour. Maybe you will get back when all this turmoil is over. Stay safe Cindy
I do hope to get back to Oz and see all my bird friends. You and Jack stay safe too my friend <3
Thank you very much, Carol! Very appreciated. We will win the game! Best wishes, and stay well, too. Michael
Thank you Michael. I will try! ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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This is excellent advice, Cindy!
Thank you Jennie. A daily anxiety reduction program really helps. Stay safe my friend <3
Yes, it does. Turning off the news and stepping outside can be a great tonic. So can Cindy’s photos.
Awwww ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
I feel relax already by looking at your beautiful images. Indeed, the recent news and as well as social media messages recently just too much. We need to take a break, by reducing our exposure to news and stay positive. Thank you so much for your advice and tips!
It is so true. The news has become a toxic mix of anger, argument, polarity and doom. It is no longer calm and objective as journalism should be. It is no longer helpful to me, and is in fact harmful and skewed. I want to stay informed, but reducing my exposure to news media of all sorts helps me.
Thank you for your sage advice, Cindy!
You are very welcome. Stay safe my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
You too, Cindy. xxx
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Thank you so much for this helpful free therapy. My phone is flooded with news about Covid-19 and I just stopped reading them. Koala-ty pics as always. Stay safe and healthy, my dear friend. ♥ᕙ(^▿^-ᕙ)♥
Koala Bears have to have the most powerful anxiety busting mojo in the world! Just looking at them lowers blood pressure and creates immediate smiles. Be well my friend & thank you ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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Thank you my friend & stay safe and well ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
For the first time I see pretty long post from you. Thank you, Cindy. You care. You use your professional knowledge to help. The set of pictures is awesome!
Of course I care. I have wonderful friends I want to protect, like you Alexander. Be well & stay safe <3
Thank you, Cindy. Having this kind of friends nothing scares me. We have to live and live with pleasure. There are no other choices.
Take care ❤️
Amen <3
Thank you for your advice, Cindy. I appreciate every word that helps me stay calm and hopeful.
Awww, I am glad. We all have within us much more power than we know to stay calm in the storm. Be well my friend <3
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Wonderful advice Cindy 🙂
Thank you Michele <3
Calming images to soothe our spirits, thanks. Gardening and nature are my distractions and healers. They take me to an inner place of joy.
It’s wonderful and powerful when you learn you have the resources within you to create your own joy and escape. I am so glad you know how to do this Sally <3
Thanks for all this good sense. I was directed here from Leya’s blog.
You are most welcome and thank you to Leya for sharing and caring ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Your photos are beautiful (particularly the flowers! What are they?)
Guided visualizations no longer work for me as I lost most of my ability to visualize due to a conflict between two prescribed drugs I was on in the 90s (I’ve written about it in my ‘Something about me’ page), but I paint instead. 🙂 Just seeing and applying the bright or pastel watercolours relaxes me, and that’s what I’ve been doing recently. I also quite severely limit the amount of news I’m exposed to, and I don’t use Facebook or Twitter.
I love that you shared this because it so important. Anxiety reduction tools are not a one thing fits all solution. As Buddha said, ‘there are many paths up the mountain.” The important thing that you are doing is learning which tools work for you and employing them on a regular basis. Your painting sounds wonderful and I am glad you have such a wonderful gift. I agree with you completely about FB and twitter, neither help me, so I don’t use them, and the news, I read in a controlled, limited manner because the hysteria doesn’t help. Be well my friend and thank you for sharing what works for you. It will help other people <3
Cindy, heartfelt thanks for this post.
I woke up this morning in the middle of a panic attack… and haven’t been able to settle myself down all day. This is good.
Be well, be happy, my friend. Hugs on the wing.
I am so sorry. Panic attacks are frightening and these pandemic days can definitely trigger them. I like using self talk for panic. The first bit of my self talk is something like this, “It is understandable that I am feeling panic. These are very scary days. It’s not my fault that I feel this way.” The important thing here is to acknowledge your panicky feelings and not blame yourself for having them. This acceptance of how you feel, of your panic, will already help you start to relax. Next just feel the panic for a bit, acknowledge it, let it have it’s moment. Then you move into progressive muscle relaxation and diaphragmatic breathing. I am going to post on these two tools today if the wifi will allow me to upload. You combine the breathing and muscle relaxation with guided imagination. Go off somewhere amazing in your head. You have one the most remarkable imaginations I have seen Teagan. It is much more powerful than fear. Use it to over-ride your fear. You don’t have to do things exactly like this. Pick and choose what works for you and make your own customized program. This will definitely work the more you employ it. Love & understanding to you Teagan <3
Hello friend, me again … after ages … again! This was different from your usual, but so timely and needed. I find that shutting my eyes to take a stroll in my summer garden chases away the darkness of the world outside. Counting my blessings is a phenomenal spirit-booster. And prayer, of course. Thank you. Look forward to the coming posts. Big hugs, Sonali xx
Yes I love all of these! I love your stoll in your summer garden and know just what relaxing this would be. I am very glad you do this. Prayer is like hope on wings. It brings instant comfort. I have several prayers that I use regularly and I soon as I start reciting them, my whole body relaxes and I can feel it immediately. Take good care Selina & thank you <3
What a wonderful post, Cindy. I had no idea that you were a professional psychotherapist!! These are all wonderful techniques. Most of which I work hard to utilize daily. I can freak myself out faster than anyone else. I just keep saying to myself and to others that I don’t catch colds, flu’s or viruses. And I don’t but still take precautions to avoid unnecessary exposure. I probably mentioned many times that I DVR the news and everything else. I watch the new is fast forward with the sound off. If it’s something sweet like a puppy, animal or a cute baby, I will watch happy stuff in real time. I’m informed but not bombarded. I’m technically in high risk group. Over 70 and with lung disease but I’ve been holding that at bay longer than expected too. I tell myself daily that I’m going to make liars out of the statisticians who predict how long I can last with this. I read a lot of uplifting spiritual information that puts my mind and attitude in charge. I add that to your toolkit and see my therapist once a month to keep me focused on living fully. I am concerned for those that this is impacting financially. So many small businesses are being hit hard. But I can’t fix it so it doesn’t help to worry or panic. I have everything we need here and if I don’t we’ll do without for awhile. Panic serves no one. My daughter will be working from home for several weeks too. This will be interesting but doable. 😉 I am such a lucky person. Thanks for sharing your toolbox. I’ll keep this list handy in case I get lost. I am still taking walks outside 5 days a week. Exercise is a great stress reliever. So is nature and my daughter is in love with your birds. The sweet Koala melts the heart too.
You have already put in practice so many helpful and positive tools. The trick is to take the tools that work for you and adapt them so they are fun and comfortable to do on a daily basis. This way they become a necessary and enjoyable part of your daily life. You are already doing this which makes me happy. You are taking good care of yourself. Good on you Marlene. Stay safe and be well my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Gorgeous as always.🍹
Stay safe my friend and thank you ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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A wonderful and extremely helpful post from Cindy knoke.com This will truly help us all in the coming months.
Lots of us actually have time now to practice and incorporate anxiety management into our daily lives, so this is an opportunity. Thank you Adele & take good care <3
I have been following your advice, thank you. <3
I am glad. Take good care <3
Thank you so much, Cindy, this will help loads. <3
I’m glad. These techniques help us get a sense of control over our emotions during scary times. Be well my friend and stay safe <3
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Thank you for your thoughtfulness & take good care <3
I needed to read this today. Thanks for sharing. Hopped over from Adele Marie’s Blog Firefly465.
Thank you & Adele Marie <3
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Hey, Folks, I really needed this post today from Cindy Knoke’s Blog. Maybe you do too.
Thank you for passing this on Mary. I hope it is helpful to people. Cheers to you & it is lovely to meet you~
My pleasure. Lovely to meet you too, Cindy.
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🙂 Thank you for such positivity. I know..not a word, but it clearly should be. 😉 I have a cabin in a beautiful meadow by a river. I can describe it to you in intimate detail. I visit often in times of stress. I do things there, relaxing things. I bake pies, sit by the fire, meander down to the creek. I made this cabin in my mind when I was young. Nature has always been my respite. I often wonder if I could just will it into existence and purchase it. LOL It’s so real in my mind I can literally feel the things I do there. This is definitely the upside of being able to visualize and feel things so intensely. I don’t have to tell you the downside. LOL Stay safe sweet Cindy, you always bring peace and joy to those around you with all your wonderful photos.
Your cabin sounds like a place I would love to be and I am happy you have the ability to escape there in your mind. This is precisely what I do and it is immensely relaxing. I read this book awhile back by Tony Judt called, ‘The Memory Chalet.” Tony had ALS. The swiss chalet he went to as a child was where he went to all the time in his mind to escape the progression of his disease. This type of guided imagination is extremely powerful. I am glad you practise this and know what I am talking about. Thank you for your very kind comment & stay safe my friend <3
Good advice during these echo chamber days. Nice pictures too, I never really thought about Australia as being a bird watcher’s paradise.
Oz definitely is bird paradise and this is the reason I went back a second time. I will never get enough of Australia’s birds.
Thanks, Cindy, for such valuable, practical help. Although I’m aware, at a certain level, that the mind is a powerful tool at my disposal, it’s not always easy to programme it for yourself. Lying in bed, ‘thinking’, is often the worst. At least once I’m up I can do things to distract (and the house does need a good clean 🙂 )
I hear you. Thought stopping is hard. Distraction, like cleaning your house, is a good alternative, and you get the very clean house!!! 😉
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Your pictures alone always make me smile 🙂
Your kind comment just made me smile 🐨
You are amazing, Cindy. Thank you for valuable help ♥
Awww…..friends like you make it all worthwhile Leya. You are more than welcome 🐨
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Thank you so much for these excellent ideas. And thank you for the gorgeous photos to brighten my morning!
You kind comment just brightened my morning, so thank you too!
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Thank you caring and sharing Patricia and stay safe my friend <3
Such wise advice, along with beautiful images, Cindy! Thank you for this!
I have been long absent from even reading blogs, but hope to get more engaged again. Peace!
Peace back to you & stay safe my friend. Its nice to have you back ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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Hi Cindy, thank you so much for sharing these helpful techniques with us. The guided imagination exercise is particularly interesting to me. Oh, and the photos really help as well. I hope you and your family are hanging in there.
We are hanging in here Stephanae, thank you. I love guided imagination. It works wonderfully for me and is lots of fun too. Thanks for stopping by my friend & stay safe ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
You too!🤗
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welcome dear Friend Cindy..you are a great writer..doing the most needed work for humanity -May Allah bless you with the best amen. I admire you much
Awww, so very kind of you Anjum and so appreciated. I send blessings and amen back to you my friend and return the admiration as well. Stay safe & well my friend ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
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Thank you for sharing, caring & helping! Stay safe & well <3
Lovely photographs that of themselves help to calm fears and put the mind in a better place. Great helpful advice as well. I am fortunate that not much panics me but I do have my worries. Nature is a great escape from the world’s troubles.
Thank you Steve! I am so glad that these images are calming to you and appreciate you letting me know. Nature is soothing balm. It is necessary for my life and keeps me happy. Stay safe & take care.
It is no wonder there are over 350 comments on this succinct, uplifting and visually beautiful post Cindy. Thank you. <3
Awwww, thank you sweet friend. You make me happy I posted. Stay safe & take good care <3 <3
<3 <3 Yes. Stay safe. Stay in! x
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Love this Cindy! I have six specific strategies for kids. Really important time for us all to look after our mental health. Would love to know your thoughts;
https://behaviour101.com/2020/03/20/6-ways-to-help-anxious-children-during-coronavirus/amp/
I love your strategies and think it is really important that we not forget anxiety in children. I did visualization and progressive relaxation exercises with my kids when they were little. They loved it and kids respond really readily to relaxation programs. Thank you so much for emphasizing such an important topic and for coming up with goo solutions. Kids are anxious about coronavirus and adults need tools to help them.
thank you for the advice! It’s gotten tiring listening to all the mainstream talking points about anxiety during such a difficult time. These are actually really good strategies. Check out my recent post about acknowledging & accepting ‘coronanxiety’ here: https://hurricaneheatherjane.wordpress.com/2020/03/20/20-3-2020/
I read your post with great interest and agree with your points. I also salute you for having the courage to acknowledge your anxiety publicly. You just took some of the power and shame away from it. Good on you! Anxiety is peculiar beast. I have found ways to take power away from it. Acknowledging it to others, as you just did here, is one way. Accepting and not blaming yourself for having anxiety are other ways, which you are also doing. Anxiety is a protective reaction to an unsafe situation. Tell me what part of the world is safe. Giving anxiety a moment to breathe before working to subdue it also helps. After all, as you point out, anxiety is understandable, but subduing it is helpful. Good luck to you and I commend your courage in writing this. Anxious people are often quite brave, especially in crisis situations. It’s dealing with the hum of anxiety before the crisis that is the challenge.
Even the photos alone are peaceful to my mind, thank you.
Thank you for a very beautiful picture
Impressed!
You are most welcome and thank you for the appreciation (♡´❍`♡)
Thank you for the kind words 🙂
Have a nice today for Cindy
You too my friend and thank you ღ
Have a good time~ 🙂
As always Cindy such wonderfully sharp and colourful photographs, thank you for sharing.
Best Wishes
Kevin
Thank you Kevin. I am cooking up a storm these days and am applying some of your soup improvement suggestions to good result. Thank you for posting them. Cooking and eating well these in times of stress and uncertainty is a big comfort. Stay safe my friend (♡´❍`♡)
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Lovely images to view for stress management.
Thanks for spreading positivity Christine & stay safe my friend (♡´❍`♡)*✧ ✰ ｡*
Thank you, Cindy, for sharing your expertise with this timely and sage advice. These are essential mind tools in our modern-day life, and especially helpful now to combat the anxiety that even the most stoic of us are feeling. Stay safe and be well. And thank you for your beautiful photos of all things wonderful; nature and animals.
All things wonderful;
“nature and animals.”
I couldn’t agree with you more!
Lovely pictures and great tips, Cindy! Stay safe.
Thank you & take good care Cynthia ღ
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As a psychotherapist who has practiced for many years, Cindy Knoke is highly qualified to share coping strategies during this very frightening pandemic we are living through. In this post, she combines some of her beautiful images and talks us through creating an anxiety toolbox. Essential reading for all of us, particularly if you are self-isolated alone or who have younger family members who are finding it difficult to cope.. #recommended
Awww, kind Sally. The world is such a better place because of people like you! Thank you for caring & sharing and spreading positive steps we all can take. Stay safe & well my friend. ♡♡
Thanks very much for a very helpful guide to navigating through this crisis..stay safe.. hugs ♥♥
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Thank you Cindy… invaluable strategies and advice. Living here in Ireland with sisters and a brother in lock down in the UK at the moment, it is also that feeling of powerlessness to help in any practical way. Thank goodness for the Internet with its positive applications such as video and email etc to keep in touch… ♥
Yes, helplessness regarding those we love is the hardest. Acknowledging our powerlessness can help a bit. I like the serenity prayer for this especially. And birds inspire me. They are helpless too, but they always sing! Love to you Sally & to your family. ♡♡
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Thank you very much for the very good advices, Carol! Hope you and yours are staying well, and save. Best wishes, Michael
Thank you Michael & take good care my friend. ♡♡
Thank you too, Cindy! Will do. Seems it will be a longer walk. Michael
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When living in Lockdown places, even in cities when still able to go some kilometres away from home, even if it has now become more limited in several places, those not limited by (1-1-1 or 1 person 1 meter from home at a time) may be happy to count themselves to the lucky ones who may still move around and should be enjoying to see all those things for which they previously had not taken enough time to notice them.
“… should be enjoying to see all those things for which they previously had not taken enough time to notice them.”
I love your words Marcus! They speak such truth. Crisis brings unexpected opportunity to see and do things differently. Stay safe my friend & thank you.
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Thank you for sharing & caring my friend and take good care დ
Thank you for this, especailly the ABC of Self talk. I’m ‘awfulising’ all the time now…. 🙁
Yes, many of us are awfulizing. ABC well help you stop. Take good care and let me know how it works for you ❣
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Thank for caring & be safe.
I listened to a psychologist last night. She did a 15-20 minute talk on dealing with the personal anxiety we experience as a result of the pandemic. She provided four very good tips. I’m thinking of typing the notes and sharing them on the blog–but only with her permission.
Sounds like a wonderful idea. I look forward to seeing them დ
By the way–all of these photos are stunning, as always.
Awwww, so appreciated. Thank you Chandra დ
Great advice. Keeping busy doing what we love will help us through this. 🙂
Yes. It will indeed. Stay safe & well Marje ღ
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Thanks for sharing and caring and stay safe! ღ
My pleasure…you too. 🌺🌸
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Thanks for all your tips and also it was lovely that you read my poemsi The birds are beautiful. Keep well, Linda
You stay safe too Linda & thank you დ
Couldn’t agree more with this post, Cindy, in particular your final point ‘reduce your exposure to news’ – there’s far too much hype (still) in the media at a time when we all need to be calm. Stay safe. x
Yes. The coverage includes way too much negative projection stated as fact, and too many attention grabbing, shocking headlines. This is not a good way to receive and assimilate what is actually occurring.
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Some advice from an online friend.
Thank you Polly for sharing and caring! Stay safe my friend დ
I stopped watching the news just too much negative, depressing messages the same thing every day. I rely on my Mum just to give me the key points.
Smart & good for you! Make sure Mum takes a break too and stay safe all of you დ
Cindy this is excellent. My daughter is a therapist and I think she will love this too. She got her doctorate in the UK and lives there now with my beautiful granddaughters. As most are, she’s now working from home. One of the ways I’m keeping panic at bay (after years of panic disorder) is by creating story videos for the girls who are home with Mum and Dad for the duration. And the visualization before sleep really works! I go to a frozen lake and ice skate under the stars. My spirit wolf, Rowdy, who was a real wolf I adopted years ago from Mission Wolf, visits me there for play and hilarious telepathic communication. I write those conversations sometimes. It’s all very healing. So grateful for your blog today and your images, as always. Thanks so much Cindy. ♥.
Well, we have a lot in common Niki. My daughter is a therapist in The Bay Area and she is seeing clients and doing group online and her hubby is working from home too. They are home with their 18 mos old twin sons who I can’t go visit and play with! I am glad you are doing the visualizations and using your imagination to escape from your anxiety. It works beautifully doesn’t it! Stay safe my friend დ
Wow we do. =) And 18-month old twins and at-home work is tough. Hats off to our girls and their husbands. And visualization – yes! It’s helped me so much. I record all my conversations with Rowdy that I visit from time to time to return to a question we discussed. My friend thinks he is a stand-in for a Higher Power giving me great advice with snarky asides. XD I like that idea, actually. Thanks so much again Cindy. ♥.
Awwww, you are most welcome & I am glad you have your Rowdy. It sounds like we both raised compassionate, awesome daughters. God Bless them both დ
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Thank you for sharing & caring and stay safe. <3
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Thank you so much for sharing & caring! ❧
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Have managed to keep on an even keel so I am lucky but do miss seeing family.
Your wonderful photos have brightened my day.
Your thoughtful comment brightened comment brightened day Diana. Stay safe & well my friend დ
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Grateful for you! Thank you for caring. Stay safe & well დ
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