Scenes From Chinatown Today!

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Street Art Chinatown San Francisco.

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In the central park in Chinatown these elderly people gather for games of skill and chance, and conversation with their neighbors. Children play in the park next door. These elderly are not hidden away in “assisted living” centers. Where would you rather be when you get old? I know where I would prefer to be….They look like they are having a lot more fun than the people I visit in assisted living……I bet these games of chance keep their minds sharp too. Put it this way, I wouldn’t bet against them!
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This gentleman likes to feed the pigeons. At first he was shocked that someone was taking his photo, but he relaxed when he saw I enjoyed the birds as much as he did.
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Some wise people a long time ago planted gorgeous flowering trees all over The Chinatown Park for people to enjoy today.
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Traditional Asian cultures are known for their respect of their elders. This seems like a smart idea to me, because after all, we all will be old much sooner than we would like!
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Cheers to you from Chinatown. I like it here. Somehow it seems so much better than our carefully “planned communities”…

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About cindy knoke

I retired early after 27 years as a psychotherapist/mental health director (Cindy Barton LCSW) and moved to the outer limits of no-wheres-ville to a home I call "the holler." My closest neighbors are coyotes (packs and packs of them and they are HUNGRY), rattlers (lots and lots of them and they are MEAN), and free range cows/bulls (the bulls aren't too friendly either!) Forget cell phones. They don't work out here. Forget GPS, it misdirects. It's best not to wander too much out here, the people (and their dogs) are kinda twitchy. To reach the holler your turn right at the reeking chicken farm, down a bunch of pot-holed semi-streets/dirt roads, past the abandoned refrigerators and occupied old RV’s and then things get kinda dicey. My friends usual reaction to the trip to the holler is, “you’ve got to be kidding!” Or, “Next time let’s meet half way.” This is our little bit of heavenly Appalachia right here in rural California. I blog about traveling which I do about three months a year, cooking which I love, photography, usually of my food and trips, books, holler happenings, and anything else that strikes my fancy. Stop by the blog and take a peek. It’s safe. I promise. Cheers, Cindy

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  1. Great photos, Cindy. I love San Francisco’s Chinatown and all the hub bub and life going on there all the time. What a wonderful place to spend one’s days in the older years.

  2. Hi Cindy, Great pics.., again!!! As for the communities, they base theirs on expierience and ancestral knowledge. In this countries we base communities on politics. Which do you think works best ?? :( rhetroical question, of course).
    Paul

    • So sad for us isn’t it….we are the losers. I ran into a man from Italy in the grocery store several weeks ago, he wanted to know where all the old people were???? He says in Italy they are everywhere…..Good question, no?

  3. Beautiful trees and inspiration everywhere. Some assisted living centres are wonderful but what I find sad is that our society has made the elderly feel that is the only place where they can be secure.I don’t think my grandparents ever felt insecure or unsafe in their own homes and community.

    • So well put….We have created a sense of need that is often not necessary. I have had many conversations with my mother who thought she “should” go into assisted living because her friends did…she is more active than I am……..

      • I would add that those of us, like my dear sister, who cares for our parents in her own home, are sometimes made to feel that we ‘should’ be putting our elders in assisted care, for our good and that of the elders. Oh dear, the ‘shoulds” of the world!

      • YES!!! One much not let themselves be “should upon!” So much easier said than done. The decision to place a relative in assisted living is an indivual one based on the unique needs of each person. Bottom line is whether or not a person is safe in their current living situation. If they are not safe then someone needs to look after them, preferably in their own home, or if not possible, in some type of assisted lving program. I also worry about the burden on caretakers like your sister. Sometimes it can help to have home health aides visit the home to take some of the load off the main caretaker…….Such complicated, painful and difficult decisions to make. You, your sister, and your parents, have my complete empathy. Hugs to all of you!

  4. San Francisco is the jewel of Northern California. As you so aptly express in images, Chinatown is a kaleidoscope that brings culture and food and wares and colors and so much more to the forefront. Happy Springtime in a fabulously gracious city.

    • Thank you so much!! I think the community they create for themselves is remarkable and enviable. Plus I am simply in love with Chinatown!! Thank you for your kind comments & cheers~

  5. Fantastic photos as always :) Now that I’ve finally found you again!! It’s not just you but once again I’m missing important blog updates…I see I have missed a lot here! I’m not ignoring your posts, they’re great but I’m genuinely not getting the emails/reader updates – I struck lucky on this one. I’ve bookmarked it for now and hope to catch up with the ones I’ve missed tomorrow – if my course allows enough free time to get online!

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  7. One of the things we so enjoyed when we, as older people, visited asian countries was the respect we were shown. They definately look after their elders better than western countries

    • Oh yes!! I really have been thinking about this because the scene in the park was so unusual. Why should it be unusual? All parks should be like this, with young and old at leisure together. The answer dawned on me…We segregate our elderly, into retirement communities, old age homes, assisted living centers. Even if the elderly are healthy, they somehow feel unwelcome or out of place now-a-days.
      This is why I have such admiration for you and Jack….You are living life to the fullest and are OUT THERE!!! And people love to be around you two….I can tell. Bosh to old age segregation and kudos to you both~

      • I agree. When I was in China in 1989 I loved the way all public space was always full of people. In Xian I wandered into a park and stopped to watch a group ballroom dancing, next thing I knew a Chinese gentleman came over to indicate he would like to dance with me, all sign language. It was a lovely experience. Then I joined in with a group doing a type of tai chi, what great memories

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